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bl jks’kuh dk ek;uk gj fdlh ds fy;s ,d lk ugh gS

dgh vkalq gksrs gS ftUnxh esa dgh [kqf’k;k egdrh gS

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jks’kuh dk uke dgh va/ksjs ls Hkh cqjk gks tkrk gS

rks dgh jks’kuh ikus okys ls  ;s nqfu;k tyrh gS

jks’kuh ugh dgrh lkFk esa mlds D;k gS rsjs fy;s

ge mlls cukrs gS fd t#jr mldh dgk feyrh gS

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rqe galks ;k jksvks ;s fQj Hkh pgdrh&pedrh gS

D;qa uk ge dksf’k’k djsa bl jks’kuh esa ugkus dh

ftUnxh dh dfy;ak vDlj jks’kuh esa gh f[kyrh gS 

                                  fnus'k ohjk

the view of SEVEN SPICE RESTAURANT, JAISALMER

right way to run

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                                                                fnus'k ohjk

एक बार आप खुद को विस्तार देते हुए सही दिशा मे कदम उठाये तो आपका JIVAAN

Get in the right career

 When you meet someone for the first time, chances are the first question they are likely to ask is what do you do for a living? The reason is that work is the biggest block of time we allocate to anything. It also tied in with our self- esteem. People believe that we are what we do.  we have better put a lot more thought into it than most of us do.

 As soon as they can identify what we do, they feel as though they have a handle on us, that they know us.

I feel sorry for the vast majority of people who live lives quite desperation in unfulfillable occupations, who have neglected planning for joy in their careers. If we really are what we do, then

 I sincerely hope that you are doing what you want to do with your whole head, heart, mind and body. If not, I suggest you probe yourself mentally and ask, where is it I’d like to make my contribution?

 If you have trouble answering that question, look to where you do your best work. Look for what only you do so well.                                                                            दिनेश वीरा 

fact can help you?

What does it take to succeed? A positive attitude? Well, sure, but that’s hardly enough. The Law of Attraction? The Secret? These ideas might act as spurs to action, but without the action itself, they don’t do much.

Success, however it’s defined, takes action, and taking good and appropriate action takes skills. Some of these skills (not enough, though) are taught in school (not well enough, either), others are taught on the job, and still others we learn from general life experience.

Below is a list of general skills that will help anyone get ahead in practically any field, from running a company to running a gardening club. Of course, there are skills specific to each field as well – but my concern here is with the skills that translate across disciplines, the ones that can be learned by anyone in any position.

1. Public Speaking

The ability to speak clearly, persuasively, and forcefully in front of an audience – whether an audience of 1 or of thousands – is one of the most important skills anyone can develop. People who are effective speakers come across as more comfortable with themselves, more confident, and more attractive to be around. Being able to speak effectively means you can sell anything – products, of course, but also ideas, ideologies, worldviews. And yourself – which means more opportunities for career advancement, bigger clients, or business funding.

2. Writing

Writing well offers many of the same advantages that speaking well offers: good writers are better at selling products, ideas, and themselves than poor writers. Learning to write well involves not just mastery of grammar but the development of the ability to organize one’s thoughts into a coherent form and target it to an audience in the most effective way possible. Given the huge amount of text generated by almost every transaction – from court briefs and legislation running into the thousands of pages to those foot-long receipts you get when you buy gum these days – a person who is a master of the written word can expect doors to open in just about every field.

3. Self-Management

If success depends on effective action, effective action depends on the ability to focus your attention where it is needed most, when it is needed most. Strong organizational skills, effective productivity habits, and a strong sense of discipline are needed to keep yourself on track.

4. Networking

Networking is not only for finding jobs or clients. In an economy dominated by ideas and innovation, networking creates the channel through which ideas flow and in which new ideas are created. A large network, carefully cultivated, ties one into not just a body of people but a body of relationships, and those relationships are more than just the sum of their parts. Theinteractions those relationships make possible give rise to innovation and creativity – and provide the support to nurture new ideas until they can be realized.

5. Critical Thinking

We are exposed to hundreds, if not thousands, of times more information on a daily basis than our great-grandparents were.Being able to evaluate that information, sort the potentially valuable from the trivial, analyze its relevance and meaning, and relate it to other information is crucial – and woefully under-taught. Good critical thinking skills immediately distinguish you from the mass of people these days.

6. Decision-Making

The bridge that leads from analysis to action is effective decision-making – knowing what to do based on the information available. While not being critical can be dangerous, so too can over-analyzing, or waiting for more information before making a decision. Being able to take in the scene and respond quickly and effectively is what separates the doers from the wannabes.

7. Math

You don’t have to be able to integrate polynomials to be successful. However, the ability to quickly work with figures in your head, to make rough but fairly accurate estimates, and to understand things like compound interest and basic statistics gives you a big lead on most people. All of these skills will help you to analyze data more effectively – and more quickly – and to make better decisions based on it.

8. Research

Nobody can be expected to know everything, or even a tiny fraction of everything. Even within your field, chances are there’s far more that you don’t know than you do know. You don’t have to know everything – but you should be able to quickly and painlessly find out what you need to know. That means learning to use the Internet effectively, learning to use a library, learning to read productively, and learning how to leverage your network of contacts – and what kinds of research are going to work best in any given situation.

9. Relaxation

Stress will not only kill you, it leads to poor decision-making, poor thinking, and poor socialization. So be failing to relax, you knock out at least three of the skills in this list – and really more. Plus, working yourself to death in order to keep up, and not having any time to enjoy the fruits of your work, isn’t really “success”. It’s obsession. Being able to face even the most pressing crises with your wits about you and in the most productive way is possibly the most important thing on this list.

10. Basic Accounting

It is a simple fact in our society that money is necessary. Even the simple pleasures in life, like hugging your child, ultimately need money – or you’re not going to survive to hug for very long. Knowing how to track and record your expenses and income is important just to survive, let alone to thrive. But more than that, the principles of accounting apply more widely to things like tracking the time you spend on a project or determining whether the value of an action outweighs the costs in money, time, and effort. It’s a shame that basic accounting isn’t a required part of the core K-12 curriculum.

What Else?

Surely there are more important skills I’m not thinking of (which is probably why I’m not telling Bill Gates what to do!) – what are they? What have I missed? What lessons have you learned that were key to your successes – and what have you ignored to your peril?

ten key of success

Do you know what are the keys that will make you successful in life?

You’ll discover the 10 keys to living a successful life below…

1. Clear Vision

Having a clear vision of the kind of successful life you want is the fundamental step to achieving it. If you don’t even know what kind of successful life you want, you can never achieve it.

Unfortunately, this is what happening with most people. Most people don’t know exactly what they want in their life. They will tell you that they want to be successful, but they cannot give you the clear definition of what they mean.

It is the same for those who say that they want to be rich. How rich do you want to be? You need to have a measure and a deadline for it.

2. Persistence

What you need is persistence to achieve your dreams. Never give up even if you fail to achieve the goals you set. Do you know that Thomas Edison failed more than 10,000 times before he finally succeeded inventing the light bulb?

If you give up in the middle of the journey, you’re going to waste all the effort that you have previously poured in.

Persistence is the key that you must master if you want to be successful in life.

3. Commitment

Have the commitment of doing what you have set out. Most people know that if they want to make more money, they will have to make more sales, but they just don’t do it.

Just like you know that if you want to score A in a subject, you need to study and do exercise for that subject. However, most student will just never do that.

Therefore, you need to have the commitment to carry out or to take action to make your goals come true. If you are not committed, you will procrastinate and just let it be.

4. Find A Mentor

Learn from someone who has already achieved the kind of results that you want in your life. For example, if you want to be rich, who are you going to listen to, your teachers and friends who tell you that investing is risky? Or are you going to take the advice from successful investors such as Warren Buffett and Peter Linch?

Don’t listen to the wrong advice given by those who are not successful. Your friends may care about you but if they don’t know a thing about investing, don’t listen to them. Just be friend with them but listen and take advice from other successful investors.

This is what I mean by finding a mentor. If you can learn from someone who is credible or are able to teach you what you want, achieving the outstanding in your life is not something difficult.

My success mentor is Adam Khoo. He is the one who showed me what I can accomplish in my life. And I’m planning to attend one of his workshop this year. Adam is one of the top successful people in Asia and he is teaching the how you can master your mind and design your destiny for success. To learn more about him, visit him at Master Your Mind.

5. Think Positively

This is one of the most common but powerful techniques to live a successful life. Try to notice your thinking pattern, are you thinking the negative or are you thinking about the positive.

Some people will think the negatively and this block them from using their full potential to achieve what they want. It is just like when your boss ask you to go in his room, what do you think he is going to tell you? Are you thinking good thought or negative thought?

You can control your thought by breaking your old thinking habit. First you will have to identify or get conscious about the thought that you are thinking. And if you found that you are thinking negatively, try to focus on positive thoughts.

6. Dare Venture Out Of Your Comfort Zone

Some gurus say that if you want to be rich and successful, you need to do things differently.

What I think is, you don’t necessarily need to do things differently from others, but you must dare to venture out of your comfort zone. If you’re someone who is shy and timid, try to get out of this comfort by getting to know more people.

Some people don’t dare to do this and this causes them to stuck in where they are forever. Just like if you’re living in a small city and you know that you will not have much opportunity if you stay there. And if you want to make some big business deals, you must go to big city.

Do you have the courage to do so? Get to a place where nobody knows you and you’ll be all alone to strive for your future. Are you willing to do that? Do you dare? You need courage to go against the norm and expand your comfort zone to be successful.

7. Network With Other Successful People

Birds of the same feather flock together. How true this is. People who are successful will network and be together with other successful people. Of course, I’m not suggesting that you leave all your friends, but what I’m telling you is to join and get to know more successful friends.

The more you mix with successful people, the more you are going to learn how they think and how they act. Just like if you mix with a bunch of street punks, you’ll eventually think just like them and act like them.

When you see all the people around you are making more than $1 million a year, you will feel unsatisfied and you will feel that you can accomplish much more. When all your friends are making $10,000 a month, but you’re only making $2,000 a month, what will you feel?

This is the importance of mixing with other successful people. You want to create the feeling, the emotion of being the same with them. This is why reading and learning are so important to improve the quality of your lives. My top recommendation, go through Master Your Mind to learn how to design your destiny today.

8. Be Willing To Fail And Turn Failure Into Success

If you’re not someone who is willing to fail, you can never be successful. People learn more from their failures than their successes. Without failure, you can never achieve success.

Babies will learn from failure such as falling from trying to walk. But do they give up? Or did you try to stop them from falling? No! You’re not! You tell them to keep trying until they learn to walk. And this is the reason everyone in this world walks.

However, when doing business or investing, what do you tell yourself? You tell yourself that you cannot afford to fail! Can you see the difference? It is the same in school. Teachers will punish and scold those who fail in school. This is one of the early conditioning that put you to think that failing in life is not something good.

You have to be willing to fail and turn failure to success. Don’t be afraid of failure, learn from your failure and make more wiser choice without giving up. This is how you learn and be successful in life.

9. Rest And Enjoy Life

What is the meaning if you have all the money in the world but have no time or freedom to enjoy life. You don’t need to be a millionaire to enjoy life. You can be happy and enjoy life right now.

This is what separate successful people from ordinary people. Successful people always are passionate with their work. For them, they are enjoying their work. In fact, it is not work to them, it is play, it is fun.

On the other hand, ordinary people will think that it is boring to work. They need to work for living and it is not something fun or enjoyable. This is what kills their passion and they lose the motivation to be the best in their field. You can be successful in every field as long as you have the passion and motivation to be the best.

10. Discover The Final Key By Yourself

You don’t have to learn everything from a book or from here. Sometimes, you can review back what you have done and maybe you will discover the ‘a-ha’ moment by yourself.

Looking back at your results will give you a good indication of what is working and what is not working. You just need to do what is working and improve your strategy to get even more and better results.

These are the 10 keys that every successful people are holding. If you want to be the next successful people, use these keys in your life wisely.